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Everything you need to know about simping and how to stop simping as a man.
Firstly, who’s a SIMP? Being a simp is a term used when a guy is being too nice to a woman, when he is fishing for compliments, or trying to get with her.
A man who puts too much value on a woman for no reason is a simp; he’ll put a woman first before himself, he’ll do anything to please a woman whether it’s giving attention, money, or lifts, in an attempt to receive affection from her.
Secondly, how will you know if you’re a simp?
— when you put girls on a pedestal, I mean no matter what a girl does, you don’t see any fault in what they are doing, you can’t criticize them as they are superior to you? You’re a simp.
— when you double text a girl, you a simp.
— when you too nice to a girl, you’re a simp.
— when you look for validation from women, you’re a simp.
— girls will ask you to do something and you’ll do it straight away even when it’s not beneficial to you, you’re a simp.
— when you beg for sex, you’re a simp.
— when you send a woman money to reply your dm, or use money to win a woman’s heart over, you’re a simp.
Know this, being a simp would never get you loved, but played and taken advantage of, wake up!
Some may say this is just being gentlemanly, but there’s definitely a difference between being a gentleman and a simp. Never fall in this category of weak, submissive, low value men.
Thirdly, how can you stop being a simp?
— Build/improve yourself, improve your dress sense, improve your looks (get creams that make your skin glow, nice haircut, smell nice), learn to speak fluently too, cos a lot of men simp as a result of low self esteem. Improve yourself.
All this will help you get more confident in yourself for yourself and also when you dealing with women. Women love confident men, that’s why a simp’s girlfriend will cheat at any given opportunity with a confident good looking bad guy.
— Delete all simp tunes: listen to Future, Meekmill. Listen to Blaqbonez than you listen to Chike🌚
— Give girls you simping for space: unfollow them on SM, just disconnect.
— Stop being an introvert: Go outside, meet new women, communicate with them, make yourself seen so you can attract women too. The fewer women you got, the more desperate you’re when conversing with this gender but if you got them plenty, you won’t let no one waste your time.
— Focus on chasing the bag, not women: high value men don’t chase, women chase them. Truth is; women send dms first, women send men money, women spend money they get from simps on dominant kings. Wake up so you don’t play yourself kings, use your head, be in your frame.
— Be intentional: tell girls what you really want with your full chest. Is it just sex, tell her, if she ain’t down, don’t beg her for the fun cos your d!ck is too precious, move to the next, that’s the power of abundance. You got options.
— Set boundaries for yourself and the girl: know when to be sweet, and when to stop.
— Be dominant: dominant men get the women they want, and not who’s available.
— Don’t always be available, know when to ghost women. It makes them value you more. You guys just started talking and you disturbing her with calls always? You’re not jobless bro, and even if you’re, pretend not to be. Don’t be that type of guy, your time is expensive bro.
Fourthly, ask a woman what her definition of a perfect man is and she’d describe a simp lol not because she likes you tho, don’t play yourself. Women keep all type of men around since many of them love to use men, and every guy still gon’ serve a purpose.
The hard guy, maybe for sex while you the simp, maybe for transfers, bills and to kiII boredom. A lot of simps get ignored in the DM then she texts you back when she’s bored & you’ll still reply with the speed of light. Different guys, different roles based on who she see you as.
So if you simping and she’s keeping you, just know she’s using you & she’ll never wanna lose someone she’s using. From this, you should know that you can be a boyfriend who simps with his girlfriend, simping ain’t limited to single guys, but guys in relationship too. Wake up!
Some of you will go single the moment money stops coming, your money has been the only thing keeping her in that relationship, some of you send weekly allowances, monthly allowances, some of you are playing fatherly roles, more like you paying her to be in a relationship with you
There’s actually no benefit in simping tbh, everything you attract aren’t genuine, fake companies, fake love, fake orgasms, just fakes, wake up!!!
Lastly, the word SIMP actually originates from the abbreviation of simpleton, which is a name for someone who’s f00lish.
So, if you’re a simp, that means you’re f00lish. Do not simp kings, get back in your masculinity frame, and save yourself today.
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